State of the Relationship Questions
*Use this worksheet to look at what is working or not in your current relationship
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Partner Name:
Age:
Kids:
Profession:
How We Met:
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How long have I been in a relationship or dating with this person?
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How often do we see each other? Is that the amount of time both of us want to be seeing each other? If not, what is the cause for the discrepancy?​
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Do I feel like I can be myself with this person? Can I honestly communicate my feelings, interests and values and feel safe, seen and non-judged?​
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How often do we communicate? How do we communicate?
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What have our dates been like?
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Can I see myself building a life with this person? If so, what might that look like given the current state of the relationship?
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Do I feel valued, cared for and supported by this person?​
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Do this person and I have the same vision for what we each want in a long term relationship (is our end-game vision the same)?
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How do I feel about the idea of introducing this person to my friends and family?
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Have I met any of their friends?
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Have we discussed and planned any trips or real life activities together?
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What are the next action steps for this relationship?
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What would I advise a friend or client in this relationship?​
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What are the next steps or actions to take if any in regards to this relationship?​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​